Trust Me

Published on January 9, 2005 By Death_By_Beebles In Misc

Trust. What an interesting concept. Every day I trust people that I know, and people that I might never see again in my life. I trust that kids at school aren't trying to blow me up. I trust that a close friend will keep my secrets and be there when I've fallen down.

My relationship with Sam taught me something beautiful about trust. The fact is, I have to have it from the people I love. The beauty of it is that I need trust, and in some strange way I find that comforting. It makes me feel like I'm not going to take in second rate friends and be inconsiderate with the people I love. If you want me to love you, let me trust you, and trust me.

If anyone is to have a good, lasting relationship with me, two things are kinda like requirements:

1) Never accuse me of doing thing I don't do.

2) Trust me. Trust me with your life. But don't stop there. Trust me with your heart and soul. Trust me enough that you would never accuse me of flirting with other girls. Trust me enough that I never have to cry about not having that trust. Trust me enough that even when things go bad for you, trust that I will be there. Trust me enough to let me know you well enough to cry for you. Trust me enough to let me hold you when you cry, and never be afraid that I will drop you and let you break. (Number 1 ties in with this one)

I may be strange when comes to relationships, but this kind of trust is something beautiful and special to me, and I cherish it more than anything else you could ever give me.

Peace,

Beebes

Comments

carebear07

on Jan 10, 2005

Trust should be this way with everyone. If you're in a relationship and you don't have any trust, then what is the point? You must have trust in order for things to work out. Or at least that's my opinion. If you don't have trust then I guess it's basically saying that you're just going out to go out with someone. Not saying that's what you and Sam did though. But to me it would just seem that way. Am I making any sense?

~carebear~

discombobulated chick

on Jan 10, 2005

trust is very very very important not only in relationships but with friendships too and i totally agree and also to have trust you have to give it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!but yes i totaly agree with this !!

Tractor Chick

on Jan 10, 2005

I trust you Alex. You shouldn't have to cry to make people see, but I know that is how you cope with things and that is fine. Trusting is aways there between people but once a person has broken that trust it is hard to gain, but and even when you almost get you will never have it completely b.c that person will be afraid that you will break that trust again. So I know how you feel.

I may be strange when comes to relationships, but this kind of trust is something beautiful and special to me, and I cherish it more than anything else you could ever give me.

Trust should be special and I wish people would trust people more and not say things they do say about people. I think the world would be a better place if they would just go by what Alex has said.

Stacey

Zoologist03

on Jan 10, 2005

I agree, Alex...without trust then there's not much of a relationship. If you can't trust your significant other, than who can you trust?
If you can't trust your friends...than you can't have a real friendship....

Good article Alex,
~Zoo

wnx_decoy

on Jan 10, 2005

I think this is one more reason why Sarandon has been doing pretty good so far. I trust her with everything and she's trusted me with things she doesn't trust anyone else with.

Good luck in the future bud.

Capt. over and out!

NotSoSmellySarah

on Jan 10, 2005

Trust is the hardest thing for me to do. I freaked out in drama class one day cuz we had to do a trust exercise seriously mrs. groff had to calm me down. Brandon is the only person i trust, or have trusted in a long time. But for me to trust anyone they have to earn it. I'm insanely tense when it comes to trusting anyone with anything. Which raises a good question, I have lots of friends and i don't trust any of them except perhaps one, but she's given me reason to, and even then i barely do. I'm sorry but i just don't trust any of the friends i have. None of them really have proven that they can be trusted, no offense guys, i love you all very much, but trust is something that takes time.

carebear07

on Jan 11, 2005

Let's just say, I trust most of you. Actually, I think all of you guys on here I trust. But then there are some other friends that I have that sometimes I feel I can't trust. I feel really bad that I can't trust them, but all they've shown is that they can't be trustsed, so what else am I going to do. Sarah I can see why you don't trust people. I mean, you're going through a lot right now. So I see where you're comming from.

~carebear~

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