Or, how I'm being a dick to people because I don't
In response to some comments made by one of the AC Crew, and I'm not going to mention names, but her's starts with "c" and ends with "arebear07"
I'm not actually yelling at anyone. But, as you know, things have a way of getting misunderstood, and since no one cares whether they take it the way I meant it or not, I'm just going to say my piece and be done with it.
I know I'm not perfect. You don't have to bring that up you know. And if I say something, it's because that is what I was thinking.
Does the truth hurt? Because it can sting, sometimes, but for me, it's better to say, "You know, I think you are being a (Insert descriptive adjective here)" instead of lying about it, or pretending it didn't exist.
Does this give me a big head? Am I egotistical because I speak my mind? I don't think so. I think I'm being fair; fair to you, and fair to me. I tell you what I feel, and you know what I think is wrong. Is this worse than telling you what you did is right?
Tell me: What is worse? You inciting anger, pain, and anguish? Or me telling you that you are a bitch for doing it?
Quote carebear07: And some guys *cough*alex*cough* don't understand how girls feel. And I get so fed up with it at times, that all I know to do is cry.
Don't give me this crap about how I "don't understand your feelings because you are a girl." That's bullshit and you know it. And, I don't want you to try and tug at my heartstrings. It doesn't work. Crying isn't going to get you anywhere. Do you want me to understand? Then understand ME! Understand why I DO what I DO. Understanding isn't one-sided.
Quote carebear07 "Alex........once again you ruined my blog!"
I did what I did because it was a necissary end to an unnecissary beginning. And how can I ruin your blog? Did Tex ruin your blog when she accused you of the same thing that I did? No, she didn't. You wouldn't dare say something like that to Tex, because you need her points to get you closer and closer to that spot you're looking for. Because she's your "Friend". So does that make me not your friend when I criticize you? Does my criticism make me not care about you as a friend, does it make me any less of a person?
Quote Texas Wahine "Ashley, sweetie, you know I like you, but this is blatant points-whoring. You have hashed out what you think about homosexuality with JU again and again. I just checked my gmail account and found an email asking me, and eight other JUers, to read this article because you "think we will enjoy it." It seems to me that you would like to see a battle rage on your blog so that you can rake in the points; it doesn't seem that you are interested in any sort of meaningful discussion. If I wrong about this, please correct me, but this is very much the way it looks to me. "
You didn't rip her... and you talk about equality! You make me laugh. I'm equally amused and disgusted.
Quote Email, received Wednesday, November 17, 2004 10:10 PM : Hey all you Joeusers! Please go to http://carebear07.joeuser.com/articleComments.asp?AID=35283 I think you guys will enjoy this article!
*Ashley*
I'm saying this now. I don't have to write an email out to get people to respond. I'm not trying to "get points". I do this for ME. Damn it, I blog for myself, not for you, not for anyone other than me! YOU are the true hypocrite, YOU are the egotist, and YOU are the one that needs to fix it.
No more of this. I'm through. And, I'm going a step further. I'm boycotting your blog. I'm not going to reply to anything you say untill you apologize.
Stop creating drama... I don't want it, don't need it, don't have any use for it whatsoever. Cry all you want. I'll talk to you again when you start treating me like a friend.
Well, now I'm all worked up over nothing. I'm going to bed.
Alex